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Old Aug 12, 2012, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted by athena.agathon View Post
Thanks, guys. Writing things down is a strategy that has worked for me in the past (actually I write a lot now, but I never bring that with me to therapy). But I may do it anyway...I got so frustrated last week that I decided that I just needed to make notes and bring them because when I get nervous I forget everything I thought about (and everything about the session the week before).

If I'm realistic, my therapist is probably not frustrated with me...I'm frustrated with me, and I just assume that he will be, too. He's been consistent about telling me that it's OK and that he's not impatient with me but if he doesn't say it a thousand times in a session I start to not believe it (probably if he did, I still wouldn't believe it!).

I write all the time especially here on PC and an online journal. But I lose my thoughts once I'm in T's office. Many times I'll bring a list of things to talk about or bring something I wrote and I'll read it to T.

It does get easier with time. I'm much better than I once was but I'm still working on it.
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