I understand what you say, but look at it from another perspective.

You have to have things to compare to each other in order to learn...to grow...how do you learn what is right if you have no wrong to compare it too? How do you figure out if you want to be a lawyer or a doctor...if you don't have the one to compare to the other, how could I possibly have any past to compare to a future if I had never compared.

Comparing yourself to someone else and finding only bad in yourself...no, that is not what I mean at all, or comparing someone else to you and finding only bad in them...that is not healtthy either.

Look for the good inside and out!