I think that it is the big beliefs that I would like to have some agreement in. I want to marry a Christian. I would prefer that he be a moderate rather than a conservative. I tend to run into the ultra conservative men through my on-line info and weirdos on the bus. So, I think you are within your rights to prefer someone similar to you. I do hope that you give them a chance before you conclude for them what they believe though. Many Christians don't believe what the loud mouthed conservative Christians believe.