I am GOING TO HAVE TO WORK, on working on that.

Me and my partner had a long talk last night over this issues. Turns out I'm projecting. Take her to a few sessions and she has the lingo down..haha

Turns out...I don't know how to ask for things, such as my needs to be met. I always assumed she should know and when she doesn't I take it as she doesn't care about me.

This led to a conversation of what "needs being met" really were for her or me. Turns out she is getting her needs met. Its I who is not, because she has no idea what they are. I on the other hand just know what hers are, i am like a boy-scout, always prepared, thinking 12 steps ahead. But she doesn't work that way and actually NEEDS me to tell her my NEEDS....

"aint that a kick' in the head", oh.. Sinatra for you younger ones ...LOL