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Originally Posted by Antimatter
Thanks for your post. I don't know how to work on the relationship or where I'd begin. I tend to obsessively review past ruptures and try to work through them because of the shame I feel about being clingy. I've really noticed how defensive I get around this issue. TC
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The really nice thing about therapy, Antimatter, is that you don't have to know how to do that. You just need to be able to bring it up with your T. You can tell him that you feel shame about being clingy (which is your perception, but truly may not be his) and how you feel defensive. That should be plenty to let your T know where to go from there.