Wow, I feel like a failure right now. I talked to my attorney because I want him to make sure he sends me a copy of what he is going to present as a demand to the opposing side.

He is not happy that I am asking for that and he also said he doesn't feel like I "trust him" to do a good job. And I did tell him that I didn't care for what happened last year about him "forgetting" the scheduled depositions.
And he said he must have been busy and the other side must have been busy, etc. And then he said that he didn't like me needling him and that his customers don't do that to him. He said he thinks if I am not happy with him that I should get another attorney.

Well, I didn't say that I had been thinking of doing that. What I did say is that I did not see anything wrong with my wanting to see what he intends on presenting to the opposing side as a "demand". And he said that it is not usual that a customer ask that and that is usually left up to him. And I said that I don't see anything wrong with me seeing what he intends on presenting to make sure what is there is correct.

Then he raised his voice at me and said how much he didn't like me "needling over him" and pestering him. Well, it is not like I call him constantly, because I have not talked to him for a month. And to be frank, he told me that the opposing side has not been pestering him for a demand, but he told my daughter they were. Well, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO BELIEVE.

Now I don't know what to do. And if he decides to quit my case what does that mean. I feel like BECAUSE I OPENED MY MOUTH AND SPOKE UP I AM BEING PUNISHED. THIS IS VERY TRIGGERING. And if he does drop me as a client, who knows what that means either. And I CAN'T FIND ANYONE TO HELP ME WITH THIS. AND DON'T SAY CALLED THE COURT BECAUSE THEY WONT ADVISE ME EITHER.

And if this makes a mess, I AM GOING TO BE BLAMED.

I am not doing well today to be honest.

I did call around and could not find another attorney and all the ones I called know my attorney. Well, he was good in his day, but he is old now and I really feel he is slipping and forgetful.

What is wrong with wanting to know what is going to be put in as a demand?

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