Oh OE I am so sorry this is going on. How crazy. I don't think you are being out of line by asking to see what it is that he is working on! He is, after all, technically employed by you. Especially after his history of forgetting dispositions, etc, I would want to know as well. It is your right as his client. Can you report him to the BBB?

I don't know a lot about this, but I do know that courts won't tell you anything because clerks aren't allowed to give legal advice. (That info doesnt help you at all, I know.)

I don't think you are in the wrong. I know that probably doesn't help either but I am so sorry. He is supposed to be representing you. I can only send hugs your way and hopes that things improve???