I told my T that I think your T is trying to tell you that there is something your H isn't telling you, and my T said, well, why wouldn't her T just SAY that then? And I was like, oh, right...
Then my T though there might be something your T is not fully conscious of (in himself), as my T was. Hope this helps BTW, I only brought this up to T cos it helped me see something in my own situation, which I forget right now what that was...