Oh I am so sorry that you lost your father in law. I am sure it is a shock to your H too. He may not have answered because he just doesn't even know what to say.

You called your MIL and you do have to consider doing your best to keep yourself calm. Maybe after the baby you can have time to spend with your MIL. I am sure she will be VERY lonely after the services and has to be alone with out her H around.

We are all here, keep us informed. We are here to support you.
(((Hugs)))