not sure where to post this so if it needs to be moved ok.

first of all hubby and I are having to move out of our house very soon. The problem is I can't move far away til after any settlement with workman's comp. So we or I am moving to my dad's house at least until then. My dad is also not doing well health wise. He will be 77 next month. His wife has no idea what is going on because she will not take him or go with him to his dr appts.
Then there is my hubby's dad. he is 80 and recently lost his wife, so he is in Kansas all alone. None of the kids live anywhere close to there. He wants us to move out there. I don't really have too many problems with this except of course my dad not doing well. But lastly is my grandson. He needs me I think more than anyone. He asked me the other day if I am moving far away. I asked him why he asked that. He said "grandma I would miss you too much if you did".
So this is my issues right now. I can't please everyone. Everyone has always expected me to be here or there...I am only human...I can't please them all. I have no idea what to do..me stay with my dad and have hubby go to his dad's til he is gone. errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr