((Open Eyes))
what an old fart--
I know this is no time for jokes... but hopefully a little smile?
I don't get what YOU have done that is wrong-- Why he is getting angry with you asking about YOUR Case--
So what if his other customers' do not ask-- you are his customer, each customer is different with how they handle things-- some like to be involved a little more than others.
I don't much about lawyers or law or anything-- but I don't see what is wrong with You just asking about what is going on, what he is going to lay out there--- I think that is wise to do-- just as you have mentioned, everything correct.
I will second with Rose-- Be Kind to yourself Open Eyes.. perhaps he is having a bad day, if he is an older person, perhaps he is realizing he is not as good as he was when younger-- things can always be misdirected in the worst ways.
((hugs))