Spend time getting to know a woman. I think that girls who "sleep with him right out of the club on the first night" may be influenced by alcohol/drugs, both of which have a disinhibiting effect. Of course, things are different if you are looking for a relationship. Build a positive relationship with someone first, then gradually move towards sexual contact. When there is an emotional bond, then those triggers will be there.

And keep reading more about relationships. They really are about more than just sex. And I have read your other posts. You might consider looking at some of the pornography addiction literature. Viewing that material at such a young age might have impaired your perception of what real realtionships are all about. In general, they do not happen with the pizza guy showing up at the door and then somebody whipping off their clothing. Best to you..