Radio you nailed it right on. Before I edited my post at the top I had said that I didn't seem to have a lot of support to give right now because I NEED it more myself right now and that I knew it sounded greedy but it isnt I do try to be supportive but sometimes I do not have much to give

Thank you all and PAT I have missed you I know you were there a lot before you went away and did and have supported me ....a few have .