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Originally Posted by hankster
that just seems to me like your mom was trying to pull a major guilt trip on you, and she succeeded. maybe she didn't intend to? but wth did she think the answer was going to be??? that was just effing uncalled for on her part. she should call her herself and offer support, if she really wants to know, or cares. omg.
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I think it was more that she just didn't even consider how her words might affect me. That's usually what happens. She doesn't know my friend's mom, so couldn't call her. I think it was more of a "kinship" thing that prompted her to ask me...my brother killed himself 11 years ago, so my Mom "knows how my friend's mom feels."
Thank you for being indignant for me, though! I never know when I should be mad about the things my mom says/does. I usually just take the hurt and move on.
I'm very, very good at seeming "fine" so I suppose that everyone thinks I'm handling my friend's death just "fine." I am handling it, and processing it with T, but I'm no where near the point where being asked about it doesn't hurt.