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some thread so many argued about how many and how few words to use to help/support someone

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I think the least of your worries when responding to a post is how many or how few words to use.. It doesn't matter if you say one word or four paragraphs.. It is important for a poster to feel comfortable with what they are saying and not have to worry if they have said too much or too little...It takes a lot of caring and sometimes a lot of effort to reach out to help someone... and when one reaches out, it should be appreciated... if the advice doesn't fit, just over look it... if it does... take it to heart and learn and grow...