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Originally Posted by anthony81
Its all hard to describe.
I know you say socialize with the girl not sexualize. but then I find myself becoming a girl and talking to her about girl stuff. I start sounding like the character from Valley Girl and ask her about her shoes, talking about feelings, yoga, how I can't stand men, etc. and at that point I'm convinced she's thrown me into the 'gay' basket 
How can I be a guy with her when I dont hang with guys and feel uncomfortable around them? I don't really know how to be a 'guy' really and looks are part of this.. looking like justin bieber will not trigger her to think of richard gere |
What I'm talking about doesn't involve you acting like a 'girl' or a 'guy' or anything like that. Be YOU! Talk about whatever you want to talk about, just talk. Talk to a girl without any intention of asking her out or sleeping with her. This isn't about what she thinks of you, this is a way of building your confidence in yourself as well as your socialization skills around women, especially focusing on things like body language.
The worst thing that can happen is that you can make an extra female friend that can provide extra guidance regarding meeting women! She might even hook you up with a few of her friends.