Thank You. Yes you do remember correctly Newly diagnosed with ADD. My H never well only twice changed the last childs diapers. He has yet to give her a bath. Not alot of help then not alot of help now. A sperm doner I suppose. He does do a good job finiancially though. But kids don't remember that. And as a wife if you are so stressed out no amount of money can replace love and affection for the children as well as the mommy.