Bink...Thank you so much for your kind words. That makes me feel so much better. I guess I didn't see things that way at the time. It does take someone not so close to the situation sometimes to shed light on things. Now that my little girl is 5 years old she is the greatest gift ever. Girls are certainly different from boys. It was tough in the beginning but God did know what he was doing. I never doubted that I just wish he would have let me know what he was doing. Thank you again for input.