I believe everyone here has BPD, but we'll do what we can. Throw out any questions you have and we'll try to help. It might give you a little insite on what it is like on the other side, and that in itself may help a little. Good luck. There are a lot of things on the web for relatives of folks with BPD and very few for BPD people themselves, and you came across one of the best for that.