I think I can relate. I feel that each person is entitled to navigating the sexual realm(no abuse) in the way that best works for them, but I think I would need to be in a stable, healthy relationship before engaging in sex. I do not think there is anything wrong with you at all and I think it is okay to take things slowly with this guy. One of my friends met her husband through another friend and spent a year just doing things with him in group activities before she actually began dating him. Trust yourself and take your time...