Neglect is a form of abuse that leads to isolation. As a child we have needs for love, affection and support as well as the physical an basic needs of support. If we have not been nurtured growing up, we look for it in dysfunctional ways, which is why therapists tell me I acted out so much as a teenager after my mom died. It took all kinds of stupid mistakes on my part and I still find it hard to accept support from others although I desperately need it. Often people do respond to their own lack of nurturing by becoming over protective which does not work either

I empathize with you and i am so sorry that you did not get the nurturing that you needed. As adults we can break the cycle though, I am finding it hard but am committed to learning how to live a more wholesome and balanced life. I wish you well in your struggle and I am here to cheer for you as well

Hugs --Larissa