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Old Aug 15, 2012, 12:08 PM
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I agree, you definitely IMO were not whining. I also unfortunately don't have advice. I am with you though on those feelings and understand what you are going through right now. I am trying to work on shame with my T, but there's the rub, I am ashamed to talk about it. So the shame keeps me shamed. Meh, working through it probably will also make us feel worse before better? (just a guess there). I hope you find some answers here, anywhere, that will help you!
Wolfin3, Thank you for responding to my post. And you made me laugh when you said you are ashamed to talk about the shame with your T. i wrote about it my my journal because i knew i could not tell my T. i could not even make eye contact. However, it never occurred to me that maybe my shame is not merited. Have you ever considered that possibility?