Well I do understand all the advice you all gave but it all is asking ME to be the one to change and make drastic change in course.
I checked with some experts, did some reflection, and even got some great advice in the Guy section of this forum today...
It is extremely difficult to make the changes you suggest because it is not a problem of my attitude it is a problem of my "nurturing", or lack thereof.
Upbringing and role of parents can have a huge effect on someone and so it is not that easy to be a new Anthony if you never learned how from anyone.
I realized it is not sex itself that is my entire goal but that I am into "soft and cuddly " things. I constantly seek that nurturing touch from a female. That soft hug, that gentle caress. That feeling of utter comfort and safety in her arms.
That is not an easy trait to undo.. a man's constant yearning for real love and affection.
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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
I would strongly suggest NOT DATING. You lack the level of maturity needed to sustain a healthy happy relationship, you'll just end up causing misery and crushed dreams for you and the poor unsuspecting gf.
I'm not being mean. The fact that you've completely ignored every ounce of advice, and twisted every bit of info to fit into your warped sense of logic/reality is testament to my 1st statement.
Do yourself and future Mrs Anthony a favour and get PROFESSIONAL help... Once you UNDERSTAND that your perceptions are skewed, you can work towards rectifying them, and this will lead to a much better future than the bleak 1 you are now facing.
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