<font color="purple">Hubby is away doing an over the road run this week.... We talked some more about what it is I am in need of.... he just doesnt know what to do about it.... His answer is usually physical.... that doesnt do anything for me.... I crave emotional attention.... I tried talking with him in a non offending manner and give him ideas.... he is trying.... I am pleased that he is..... just havent reached any satisfaction yet... I have been spending time with my kids, which has been great quality time.... but I refuse to let them feel responsible for my emotional needs, as I know what that is like.... so am I wrong for wanting it met by my husband?? Not sure I know the difference between what is reasonable expectations from spouse and what I need to be doing for myself???? I am a spiritual person and pray.... </font>