An update: he called me on Skype in the morning when I was fresh from the shower, naked. Now I must explain that I believe that sitting is detrimental to one's health (from causing obesity to shortening life-spans) so I either stand (at work, have a standing desk, or in public transit) or stay on the floor on my tummy in front of the computer, on the carpeting. I only sit when I eat at a cafe. At home, I eat standing or walking around the kitchen. It might sound a little crazy, but look up research on prolonged sitting and you will see where I am coming from.

So he catches me naked on Skype. And I think - what the heck? So I take the call, shoulders and top halves of the breasts (sans nipples ) showing. And he says that I look resplendent!

So now I am resplendent despite saftig shoulders. Go figure!