Heres the story. Been married for 9 years where I have assumed things were overall pretty good. My wife has been telling me for several years that my over/emotional behavior was an issue which I tried to deal with myself by conciously altering my behavior. She recently told me that she had fallen out of love with me and that we needed help. Well, we have been to five marriage counseliing sessions which I feel have helped me identify and deal with my co-dependent behavior that I have from growing up in an alcoholic family. However, she still has tremendous anger and resentment towards me to the point she doesn't want any touching, positive compliments or anything from me. I have always done everything for her, laundry, dishes, vacuuming etc. to show her I want to be part of the team. I take our two daughters myself whenever possible to give her time for herself and hobbies. I have received no compassion or desire from her for about two years and sex was cut off totally about four months ago. Tonight we were working on an exercise that our counselor told us to do and it backfired. Basically In a nutshell my wife began to cry because she said that the only man that loves her, she may never be able to love again......what am I to make of that or do.. I can't even cuddle with her, I am so lost and scared......