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He gave me the freedom to stop or back off or whatever whenever I needed to. Once I got one thing out, the rest was a lot easier to talk about, and I have to tell you, it is a true joy to have someone else shoulder some of the burden for you.

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It sounds relieving. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I have written my T a short note openning up a little and I am going to work towards sharing more each time as I feel comfortable. I need to get the painful stuff out.