The stressfulness that's going on with all of this is not going to be resolved any time soon.......value of my farm has gone down so much & I have everything put into it......not smart to sell it now even though it's falling apart over my head......still waiting for the idiot stbx to get the quit claim taken care of & sent to me for signing & notary....been 1 1/2 weeks.....but then I'm sure when he told me he was doing it, he hadn't even started doing it yet. I am working hard on my patience. Not loosing too bad lately since I've been going out with groups to eat...but when at home & have to make food, it just doesn't happen...can go days without eating a meal just because I don't feel like eating or bothering making a mess in the kitchen or the fact that I'm just NOT hungry & really don't feel like eating. I hate reacting to stress like this & I hate long term stressful situations....midterms & finanls were one thing but stress that lasts for months is a whole other world for me & it definitely doesn't help the loosing weight issues.