Your biggest problems is that you want a FEMALE OBJECT to fulfill your needs and desires. The fact that you are asking about what "type" of girl to go for and talking about women as statistcs demonstrates that you do not care WHO this girl is... you just want a warm female body to use. You may think you feel love for these girls or that you want intimacy and depth-- but you don't. You say, over and over, that the "goal" is to get a relationship and you talk about the "steps towards the goal." A woman and a relationship are not "goals." You cannot "achieve" them. The problem is the way you think about women. You are acting arrogant and entitled-- you are not entitled to a woman: to her time, affection, body, etc. Moreover, you are SO ANGRY at women that you repel them. Your anger is absolute poision to any possibility of a relationship. If you ACTUALLY wanted to have a MUTUAL relationship with a woman, you would take the time to talk to a therpaist about your anger towards women and your objectification of women. It is absolutely impossible to develop a healthy relationship until you work on the way you think and behave. The reason women are repelled by you is because you treat them and think about them like interchangeable objects that you are entitled to use sexually if you buy them a meal. At no point have you ever considered their needs, their feelings, their wishes. Women are SO SICK of men COMING ON TOO STRONG AND PUSHING FOR THE PHYSICAL TOO FAST. That shows immediately that your focus is on your sexual needs and not their physical safety or emotional needs. You come off as a THREAT! Your talking about wanting to cuddle and wanting to hug and wanting to touch and taking them to park benches is SCARY. You have a problem understanding that intimacy is not primarily phsycial. In order for a woman to desire any physical intimacy with you she FIRST has to feel physically safe with you, which takes TIME, she has to feel emotionally close to you which takes TIME, and she has to feel an attraction to you, which is something that is not logical and cannot be explained. It just is or is not. If you actually had any desire to get to KNOW a woman for who SHE is, you would take the TIME to find out who she is before you start pushing for something. You also talk so much about compromise and meeting half-way. A woman does not want to compromise or meet half-way or make due with the creepy smuck who's desperate and available. A woman wants to find someone who she's attracted to, who she thinks is charming, who sweeps her off her feet, who makes her heart beat, who makes her smile, who she daydreams about. She does not and SHOULD NOT settle for the random schmuk who happens to be sitting there at this one moment. Any attractive woman has several people interested in her-- she does not NEED to settle. She is not desperate. She wants to stop wasting her time with the wrong person so she can meet the right person. The beginning of any good relationship feels like a dream-come-true honeymoon lovey-dovey paradise. If you cannot make her feel this way, she wants nothing to do with you. Compromise comes later, after the honeymoon phase. Not on date 1. If there needs to be compromise in order to get to date 2, YOU ARE NOT A FIT FOR EACH OTHER AND YOU NEVER WILL BE. If you cannot understand these basic life and relationship principles, please get the therapy you need in order to learn them. Otherwise, you will continue to repeat your patterns and continue to be miserable, and you will be 42 and 52 and 62 and still single and alone.