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Originally Posted by rk289
I am horrified that this boy will endure the life I did. For fewer years, it would seem, but still...  I can do nothing to control others. Any thoughts? The only thing I see is that if there are signs of abuse, I have to speak up for the boy. Knowing what I know, I couldn't turn a blind eye to it. ... i have to keep a distance,yet feel that the poor kid will grow up miserable and continue the cycle or just dive into alcohol/other drugs, who knows. Just venting feels good. If anyone has any thoughts, I'd be interested to hear. |
I relate to your dilemma. I have a cousin whose father is an undiagnosed narcissist. He's nearly 30 years old now...abuses alcohol/drugs...been in trouble w/the law...has difficulty maintaining a employment. His so called "friends" are "tools" . His mother is an enabler and although she tries to set boundaries, whenever something "major" happens, she's right there to bail him out. Yet, I care for him ....but from a distance.
In your situation, this little one you're concerned about is only THREE years old. Perhaps you can interact w/him on some level and be a part of his life. I only wish I was around when my cousin was younger. Patterns are hard to break at 30.