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Aug 16, 2012, 11:16 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Bless your heart. It sounds like you're working HARD at repairing this marriage. What is your WIFE doing to help repair it? After all, YOU aren't the only one in this marriage. SHE has to take ownership of it too. I'm sure there are things that SHE must work on too!
Eskielover is right. This is going to take time. I hope your wife is willing to wait long enough for it to get "fixed." It took 9 years for things to get where they are, so repairing things will be a choire -- it will take both of your to compromise. You need to learn how to communicate for one thing -- and how to do it without fighting!
Gosh, I hope you two can work this out. I know how hurt you are.  My thoughts and prayers are with you. Anytime you want to talk, just PM me -- I'll be here. God bless and PLEASE take care. Hugs, Lee 
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