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Originally Posted by landskaperdan
its downpour cuz there is no hope in it, to ever be anything other. It's downpour when we are happy and it's downpour when we can't handle it. it doesn't change, we have to. I guess we have to stop looking at the downpour and find something else... but what do we do when the rain is so hard that we can't see anything else? when everything is washed away?
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thing is Dan...
when you give yourself permission to swim hard ...thats what you do!
let me explain this.
....if you believe you are unjustified in your own suffering....right!
then...you will not be able to apply yourself to the areas of your life that are the EXACTLY the ones that support you through the hardship.
and you do have hardship yes?
...instead you will might blame yourself accuse yourself become your own victim and this SUX....it's death down that way yep...
...it's validation Dan..the most effective comfort in the world...
to drop the comparisons to go inside and accept admit you/I hurt and got reasons...and damn you the lot of you I'm needing to effing do this about it...let me do it I will get back to you when I am done...
thanks for comin'
(that kinda thing Dan)