(((hugs)))) I'm glad you have a "safe" place (now don't roll off that roof!)
We all "hate it" when bad things happen.
What we need to remember is all the good days we have... and even when one or a few things that aren't so good happen in one day, it doesn't make the whole day black...really... gray? yes. perhaps... it isn't a black and white world... the world is really gray, and we just have to keep reminding ourselves of this.