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Old Aug 16, 2012, 04:59 PM
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I'm a girl and I have the same issue... along with excessive masturbation and sex - hell, I have a full blown sex addiction that I've been fighting for awhile now. The porn was my hardest habit to break, harder than the sex.. I would get lost on the internet for hours watching all kinds of stuff. I realized how bad porn was when men stopped satifying me like they used to because to me they "weren't good enough, weren't as good as the guys I saw online" and it made me sad that I use and objectify men. Usually society says it's men who objectify women but I'm sure I'm not the only female who can't accept a man as perfect because he doesn't want to hold me down and hurt me, or participate in other degrading forms of sexual contact.

To stop... or well I cut back big time but I'm even proud of that, I started exercising when I thought about watching porn and it did get rid of a lot of the sexual energy. I also opened up to my therapist about my problem and realized that he can help me and that I'm not the only one with this problem.

Get a therapist. It will help. Realize the porn is a problem and don't ever expect a woman to do what you want solely for you, she matters too and should never feel pressured. I've pressured a lot of men and it makes me angry to admit that I was only thinking about my fantasies and desires, not theirs(because I really cared about some of them). Sex should always be mutual. If your addiction is anything like mine it will continue to get worse until you get a good therapist and start learning about yourself.

And try exercising when you get the urge to watch. (When I did it helped me cut back, and I lost 20 pounds!
Sorry if I wrote too much. I've never been in this section of the forum. I feel less weird about my issues reading that others struggle too.