But you need the words, Dubblemonkey, like Paul Newman said in "The Hustler", "Do you need the words?"

And his love responded after having already told him, "You're not a loser; some people live all of their lives and never experience what you've experienced." " Yes", she said, " I need the words very much, and if you ever say them, I'll never let you take them back."

It was all about love.

That may be what it's all ultimately about. The whole magilla...