I think she is missing out on the spice of life! You seem to be a nice guy so she has access to great sex and forgoes it? What a pity! I would encourage her to see a doctor to rule out physical causes, perhaps thyroid or low grade depression, before talking of it as an "orientation".

Purpledaisy - I have never been into actors in my life, yet I am quite sexual and have had periods of hypersexuality. I have just never found actors or musicians so hot - as a teen, I did NOT have posters of "hot" stars in my room. I just do not get it. Do not get the whole thing. I am very discriminating, I rarely find someone attractive, but when I do, it is strong. But actors - forget about it. So I, too, would be at a loss for words if asked to pick "the one". Hugs.