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Originally Posted by button30
she said to confront her about the abuse and then get away from the situation. It made no sense to me as by confronting her would make her very angry and she has no control over her anger at all and I would be putting myself in danger, so for me would be better to get away from situation without provoking her.
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I agree get away before you decide to confront. Sounds to me like you care for your mother and saw this as an attack of sorts on her. It doesn't have to be that way, lots of people can process these things , talk with the parent and go on to have a great relationship with the parent. Others choose to process things as they continue to deal with the parent "as is" and yet others severe the ties with the parent. No matter what your choice, look out for you first. You may only have one mother but you didn't choose her.
