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Originally Posted by button30
That last line really resonated with me Lolacobanna,
"you only have one mother but you didn't choose her" that is so true. If I could exchnge her for T I would in a flash, yes I care about her, I think thats normal to someone you have been close to no matter how they treat you but I just wish she loved me and realised that I am not a bad person like she keeps telling me.
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There's that word normal again, lol I choose limited contact with both my parents as in 3 to 5 times every 10 years need it or not, so I guess I'm NOT normal. Honey you can't make her love you the way you want to be loved unless she knows shes not doing it right and is willing to change, but I'm glad you recognize you are not a bad person...that's a positive step. For me my parents were were not willing to admit, change or acknowledge ( father) there was anything wrong...my mom said she did the best she could and that answer was just not good enough for me. My mother was who she IS long before me. Im sorry your hurting.
