Just when I've been feeling fine about our relationship and the way its going this happens. What is is freaking problem? Oh yeah. He's selfish. Pretends to care but is really putting himself first.

So he hasn't been texting me very much lately. Yesterday and today really. He used to talk to me before bed or text me. He had been doing that up until yesterday. So when I didn't hear from him all day today- after he's put cute little comments on my photos online- I asked his daughter if he was mad at me or what. I figured something was up. She said that of course he isn't going to answer the phone or texts when he's spending the night at "her" house. Yes his new soulmate who is going to take him away from his life and be his sugar mama. She figured I would be upset by this news. I said that I wouldn't and that I figured our friendship was ending. That I know who he is and am not surprised one bit. In fact, he's been sleeping with others during a lot of our relationship. I just want to be NOT lied to- i.e. by omission. Not that this is my business, of course, but shutting me out completely is just immature - and blaming it on my supposedly being upset is assanine. I am mad at the deception- NOT the fact that he thinks he has a new soulmate he's having sex with. Do I think its stupid on his part? Yeah. But that's him. That's how he operates.