I know I certainly wasn't arguing or bickering with my response. I was, however, responding to each of the 12 steps the OP listed as I felt they applied or didn't apply to my own life. I may not agree with the OP, but that doesn't make it argumentative or insulting in any way. I think several people simply expressed their response to the OP's list and he was offended when we viewed things differently. It is okay to have different viewpoints. We can learn from each other that way. What is not okay is to insult people for holding different viewpoints by calling them angry, psycho, crazy, etc. That is name-calling and is really very bad form.