those are all very good i thought, , , no matter what we desire or fear or love or think smells bad, there is an underlying reasoning for it, we could look for that for ever and not break thru the barriers the minds will often put up to keep us out, so we look for the side of the wall, or the top and try to sneak in, in an effort to solve this problem we are having, but all sometimes that wall pushes us away so strongly, that we are unable to look directly at it and get trapped in one feeling or another, maybe if we explore what love means to you, how you came to that description, we could begin to explore ways that you can find a way out of that hole you feel you might be in,