True true, EarthMamma!
The weird thing is, why does the T get irritated when I mentioned it? It's not like its a personal affront to her... why would you get angry that someone has a different taste to the average joe?
One thing i came up with is maybe she thought she had me figured out, had the treatment all planned etc. And me saying this made her think "oh damn, I got it wrong" and now she has to go and think up a whole new plan. I can see that being irritating. Maybe its more because of a practicality that is why she got irritated.