isn't T putting the cart before the horse? I "socialized" yesterday, and it only pointed out to me how broken I still am. I almost got in two fights, one with a young mother carrying an infant because she wouldn't sit down. I couldn't sit while she and her husband, both carrying infants, were standing! The other fight was with a dancer who lit a cigarette then continued dancing, waving the cigarette WAY too close to a child dressed in polyester, while the child's mother just stood there. Sorry. Then my friend's friend said, "oh, you take care of everybody." idk, a bunch of gray-haired fat-arsed yuppies sitting on their butts can't give a chair to young mom and dad of infant twins? Who are we? Or stand up to a slutty smoker - the things she did with the girl's hula hoop! This is why I stay home, I can't go out without making a fool of myself. No one else was moved to act, just me. WHY ME???