mandehble,

Please don't take this guys statements as something is wrong with you. That is a big mistake and something many tend to do, especially if they have a troubled history.
A guy that makes that statement is really just saying that "he wants to just hump different girls without any attachments or responsibilities" and that has nothing to do with "your worth". And the fact that he told you that you wouldn't fit into his agenda, is actually his repecting the fact that you are not just another "bimbo".

Having a sex drive is normal, it doesn't mean you need to think you have to respond to it. All it really means is that your body is "ready to reproduce". You are a human being and your body is designed to have one big goal, which is to reproduce just like all other living things. "And" during that time that our bodys are sending that message, women tend to look for a viable mate and there are certain things they are looking for that are not all on a conscious level. There are also chemicals that we send off that tells us what a good match might be as well. And that is all about how our chromizones are designed as well. There really is SO much science behind this that it is really important to understand this is not just "about not wanting casual sex". And women are also designed to be somewhat selective, because if we were not selective, boy we would be constantly pregnant too.

The fact that this guy is someone that attracts you, and you have not had this happen in a while, that doesnt mean that you will not find another guy where you feel an attraction at another time. The fact that you don't want to have casual sex, well you are actually "smarter" than those that indulge so much.

There is nothing wrong with being very selective and responsible sexually. Wishing that you didn't have the sexual drive is wishing you were not just a normal human being designed to be motivated to procreate. Just because the desire is there, doesn't mean we have to act on it, it is just there because our body is ready and that is all. We have, however taken liberties with this drive and like anything else that brings a euphoria, we often look for ways to abuse it and control it.

It is important to remember that men are also designed to want to procreate, and they are designed to try to do this with as many possible mates they can locate.
They are driven this way to ensure the survival of our species as well. So at a certain point when a male is at his peak on the hormonal level to reproduce, they do tend to be less commited to one mate and more prone to look for a bigger selection. And this has nothing to do with "your value as a person". So, you have to really allow yourself to recognize that and just move away, even if you are attracted to this guy, he is just not ready to appreciate, any one female.

(((Open Eyes)))