Therapy is the scariest, hardest work you will ever do....but the best.....The only way it works, is if you are honest. Feelings aren't right or wrong, they just are.

If you are confused or angry about something your t says, it needs to be addressed. Once he answers the question as t why he asked you about if your father molested you, you can discuss it and go on to something else.

There is no way to know why he asked it, unless you ask him. Get out your frustration and anger by talking about it with him...that is the only way you will understand.