Hello, I know EXACTLY HoW YOU FEEL. my wife is the same way. We adopted a child at birth and he was taken away frin us one year kater. She has spiraled down hill from there. She was always depressed and after that it just got worse. I never really knew what was going on till after it was too late. Her actions now are focusd soley on herself and she does not care how it affects me (husband). Everything that I do is wrong. Before I can speak to her I have to mentally put on headgear and body armour. She always talks about wondering if we should be together. She is always looking for things worng in our relationship. I mean have I ever done anything right in our marriage? I remember simply asking her "what time is it?" and she blew up at me. The funny thing is she will never admit that what she did was wrong. Even to this day, she blames her reaction on that I was treating her bad so she reacted that way. I feel like I am trapped in a draons den. Is there something wrong with me? What did I do to deserve this. I did not sign uo for this. The more I sit and think about it, I wonder why dont I just say forget this and get the hell out of dodge!I do love her but I do not know how much longer I can take this. Somebody, anyone give me sone advise on what we can do to get through this together.