You're brave for being so blunt. I wonder a bit myself about these practices and if there was an honest poll....how many would say they don't want/like to do it and feel pressured and phony pretending they like it? Problem is many people insist to be on the taking end. If you see porn videos, it makes the viewer think, its just the best thing having a body part blocking your airways lol. To solve part of the problem - obviously if a persons having sex, they should also be comfortable saying "go take a shower or join them in the shower".....then they'd be clean. Secondly if a persons healthy down there, shouldn't be anything funky going on a clean body. One would think its common sense to wash first. I took Human Sexuality in university so I can deal medically speaking with these topics.