Lexicon 78... Thank you so much for your input... I think that if I was there with him I might have a little more pull into getting him to stop doing that but he lives in Canada and I am in Michigan... I try to find him daily on MSN to talk to and see how he is doing... We can spend the whole day online talking at times... I think I am more of a mother figure to him ... but with positive thoughts and I let him know I do care.. I just hope it don't get worse then what it is for him... you too... please take care... and Thank you so much for helping me out on this .... always helps to have the thoughts of someone that does it themselves.... again Thank You ...somebody