This is a serious sort of response - I have always had normal conversations with the therapist. The problem seems to be - for me- that the therapist wants to have abnormal conversations with me. When I talk to the therapist like I do most others, she goes on about being guarded (meaning me - not her), only operating from above the neck and so forth and she does go on and on about feelings. That is not normal for me and I do not have any real clue what to say about feelings. I have admitted to having them from time to time, but that seems to exhaust the topic for me.
So it seems the deal with the therapist I see is to have abnormal, unusual conversations.