i didn't think that we were supposed to discuss PMs in our posts. i may be wrong, but i think that is a rule.

again, i'm sorry that you're hurt. but, in the spirit of that discussion, people have their right to their opinions and feelings.

we all have different styles of posting. sometimes it helps to remember who we're reading and how they ordinarily post. i come across very bluntly and forthright. that's me. others do the same. some are timid. some are afraid to even post.

take into consideration that there are hundreds of individuals here and we all think differently. otherwise, this place would be hellishly boring.

pat